My father was eldest and three of my cousin sisters were minor
when my uncle died. Least I had imagined in the future years, when my father
will leave me alone in this evolutionary process, I will have evolved into the role of father for not only my own two
offspring but also for these three little cute girls. So my job at Udupi hotel
was not only an obligation but mandatory, for not only earning the daily bread
for the entire family, but also for remaining in the modern evolutionary
process. With my son the only other man in this female dominated house I had to
play my role to felicitate the process of human evolution and modernization. I
was the by default chosen captain of my huge ship. These included maintaining
the needs of education, books, dresses and also the side effects of evolution
like dish TV, mobiles, phone, cars, bikes, tourism, only to mention the tip of
the iceberg. I used to return from college to join additional duty as an
hotelier which would continue till 11:00 pm. Though my identity always remained unique
I wonder that this transformation from “Sir” to “Seth” daily and again back to
“Sir” in the morning may have been central to my never ending fondness to
characters of Superman and Spiderman who always led a dual life.
STREET SMARTNESS Vs INTELLECTUAL
SMARTNESS
During one such regular day when I had just returned from my
college and was in my hotel service counter, I had a call on my mobile and was
a bit surprised to see my Principal calling. I was a junior amongst senior
colleagues a majority of whom were in a countdown mode for retirement,
including the caller. Why would he have needed me after the office? I alone
cannot make evolution a faster process after all. So I rode my bike to his house. He offered me
to sit down and began speaking, being in the practice of learned and enhanced “Listening”
for quite some time, especially after authoring a book on the process of “Listening”,
I listened to him, in the process profiting
a share from his evening cup of tea. My principal was an elderly man with few
years left for retirement, our principal was a purist academician. He had a
shrewd mind with a desire to retire as a grade one Principal. As a principal he
kept himself updated with modern times and expedited huge funds from the UGC to
develop our private college. The present three stored cement buildings evolving
from ten years back wooden partitions are living proofs of our evolutionary efforts.
He always had diplomatic plans for development. Knowing from my interests in
photography and Videography, he had called me to initiate an audio-visual cell
in the college, which will help in creating audio-visual educational materials.In our country when discussions amongst people advances and when
conversing people are not in their respective official roles, then the dialogues leave behind formalities and the persons involved in such deliberations become
candid. Ironically my father breathe his last a few months back and the
Principal had his teenage son on the verge of academic career. This information
may be irrelevant in this situation, but I remember Sigmund Freud had mentioned
in his book ‘Interpretation of Dreams’ that 95% of subconscious mind always keeps
working. So maybe I was lending him a respectful ear like I would have given to
my dad, and he was showing affection which he may have desired to implement on
his son. As our discussions went on it ranged from ethics and morality, work,
campus, and as most of us we Indians finally arrive to that is, philosophy. He
became emotional at one time and told me that the biggest failure in his
carrier was that he could achieve everything for his post but he could not
motivate his people. In a tone of confession he gave a reason for calling me
home and requested to take up the project of creating e-content materials in
the form of audio-video resources. As a
part of my inherited character I accepted without any inquisitive skills and
left. Later on I went on to use my crossword solving abilities and coined
various anagrams for the purpose and came up with a name “Dnyan- Aver” which
was readily accepted by the Principal. DNYAN was an abbreviation for the
college name “Dnyanopasak” and AVER stood for Audio Visual Educational
Research, which also means ‘an affirmation of truth’.
In the latter years I was
responsible for creating recorded lecture series with PowerPoint slide displays
under this banner. If a student missed a basic Lecture he could play the CDs on
his player or computer and listen to the lecture again and again. I enjoyed this creative job, which had no
monetary incentives but gave me something greater and that was a pleasure. It
is true that when you enjoy your work you don’t feel like working. A product sample
of that evening rendezvous could be found at this link:
Even today my Principals sincere admittance that “I could not
motivate people” rings in my ears. I keep thinking about it and find the truth
in his statement. You cannot motivate someone who refuses to listen. We do not
listen to people because what they say is different from our thoughts. We keep
imposing our opinion on the speaker. To get motivated the first thing is to
listen and listening without evaluating is the highest form of intelligence.
In this competition of
the modernized world everyone is smart enough and wants to outnumber the other
they subconsciously keep doing this by giving opinions. Most opinions are full
of emotions and we collect as many as we would like without putting out any
effort at all. It is only natural to have opinions, but knowledgeable opinions
take effort and are harder to collect. We believe that our intuitions and spontaneous
opinions are the final words. But we should not be so quick to give judgments.
People are smart and loyal to their jobs. People are smart enough for this competition game but not smart enough to realize that there is clear cut border of street smartness and intellectual smartness. This identity crisis remains in most individuals of the campus. As a Zen master has said you cannot fill the glass which is already full, it needs to be emptied first. Sincerity counts over loyalty. The problem with loyalty is that it is attached to the sentiments and sentiments have no place in the professional jungle. As Confucius summarizes “Every normal human being cherishes the aspiration to become a superior man—superior to his fellows, if possible, but surely superior to his own past and present self. The mind of the superior man is conversant with righteousness; the mind of the ordinary man is conversant with gain. The superior man in all things considers righteousness essential”.
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AN ARMY AND ITS LOYAL LEADER
Once various department heads approached our Institutional President
for renovating their labs and a plan with infrastructure development. The President
just sent them back with a deaf ear. The heads were disillusioned. Years passed
and this episode became a folktale, passing on from seniors to juniors. I kept
hearing this story in libraries, canteens and every other gathering. The
president was an ex-minister in the Indira Gandhi regime and now a member of
parliament from the opposition party. He had leaded a sincere political life
and barring controversies had a reputation being a good human being. I wondered
why he didn't entertain his think tank when they approached him for the
justified infrastructure developments. In the latter years our college was
applying for quality accreditation, which is a mandatory government rule and it
consists of various parameters comprising of one thousand marks. Out of these
only thirty marks were allotted for infrastructure. The soul of the campus was
considered more important than its body.
I remember studying a North-Eastern
college report, as a member of one of the committee during NAAC accreditation of our college. The report praising
that college, which had poor infrastructure procured a A+ grade with CPE and
the report had stated that “this institute is one of the best known colleges not only of Meghalaya but
also of the North Eastern States. It is also one of the leading institutions
affiliated to North Eastern Hill University and a deserving candidate for the
autonomous status. The most outstanding feature of the College is the diversity
of its teaching programs, which is a mix of traditional and vocational courses.
The College has proved its responsiveness to the needs of the region, by taking
into account the population it serves in the choice of courses offered”. I was a member of the report formation
committee and had realized why Mr. The president turned a deaf ear to
infrastructure proposals. The people who went there were no doubt loyal but
were not professional in their approach. The president not listening to them hurt their
loyalty. It would never hurt a professional. Our college was rewarded a B plus grade, which today with sincere efforts of our Principal and NAAC Coordinator had re-accredited itself to A.
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The million dollar question which needed a answer for me was is it sentimental Loyalty or ethical Professionalism which is needed in professions. Loyalty is a character which is more needed at home, with your family and friends where it is most valued. Dogs are loved and needed in homes, ask someone who has a dog as his pet. Emotions and sentiments are personal assets which can be applied to gain strength. Emotions should not make a man weak. Rather than getting stuck in a sentimental issue man should learn to move on. This is how we can evolve into more modern beings. After all man is the stakeholder of evolution. In his work he should be professional in his approach and strong in his character. A successful man is the one who recognizes the needs of progress where he is working. After all more fearful is an army of sheep led by a lion than an army of an army of lions led by a sheep. A lion and not a dog always inhabits the hearts of brave men. We as leaders need to be more like lions at offices than dogs. So I conclude, that Loyalty is a must, weather be in a hotel or a college (or any other profession). But it is "Loyal Professional Sincerity" which counts more than anything in giving you a good nights sleep, after a "Smart days work". Whereas "Sincere Sentimental Loyalty" is more for people who prefer "Hard-work" over "Smart work".
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The quality of our lives, the productivity of our organizations and the depth of our relationships are inextricably related….to Loyalty.
ReplyDeleteDifferent cultures place varying values on loyalty to the employer…. In some countries, most notably in Asia, there is a high degree of loyalty to one single company or party.
In cultures that value loyalty to the employer, a kind of family relationship seems to develop between employer and the employee. It is a RECIPROCAL ARRANGEMENT, in which the employer is concerned with assisting the employee to develop to his or her full potential and the employee is concerned about optimizing the welfare of the company. The negative aspect to absolute loyalty to one company is that an employee may stay in one job that he or she has OUTGROWN and may miss out on opportunities to develop in new directions. From the employer’s point of view, the employee may be burdened with employees whose skills no longer match the needs of the company.
In cultures in which it is quite acceptable to change jobs every few years, employees can build the career they choose for themselves. They can stay with one company as long as it is MUTUALLY BENEFICIAL to the company and employee. As long as good relationship exists and the employee’s career is advancing at an acceptable pace, the employee can remain with a company. But at any time the employee is free to move to another company, perhaps to achieve a higher position, to move to a new area, or to find a new situation that is more suitable for his or her personality. The advantage of this situation is employees tend to move around a lot.
Many find the concept of Smart Work ‘HARD’ to accept since it has been drilled into them that EFFORT, Hard Work over time pays off…. The more time you spend on your business and the more intense your effort the greater the reward…..However, this isn’t true!!
ReplyDeleteThe hard worker approaches life and work from a left brain modus operandi. The smart worker recognises the power of whole brain thinking. The smart worker looks to leverage energy, time and money. When it comes to time and effort versus skill, he knows that skill wins….The hard worker will hack away at problems with his thinking till he gets a solution…..The smart worker recognises the value and power of silence for creating solutions. The hard worker thinks hard and ploughs through challenges, whilst the smart worker skilfully navigates, thinks smart and creates the conditions for innovative thinking with presence of mind. Finally the hard worker will take knocks harder, since, in his mind, his consistent efforts over prolonged period of time ought to have paid off. The smart worker learns to recover from disappointments quickly as he cannot afford the luxury of indulging in this if he is to reach his overall goal!!!
This concept of work hard vs work smart as applied to anything in life would be a valuable mechanism to explore, exploit, perform, realize and multiply ones skills, expertise and experience….AMEN!!!
Thanks Jiju for adding two stars to the write up. The touch up you have provided has added glow to the post.
Delete"Great teachers have as much respect for their students as they possess for their subject"
ReplyDeleteWarm regards.
Waiting for more to come :)
Dearest Anu, Thanks for the compliments which are blessings in disguise :)
ReplyDeleteHi Shiva.. Good experienced Post.. After reading ur post.. and having work experience.. hard-work is always better than smart work.. ..
ReplyDeleteThanks Akka :)
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